Do You Ever Find Yourself Stuck in a Negative Parenting Mindset?

Hi everyone,

This weekend I was walking my daughter to a birthday party down the street. As I was walking her to the party I caught myself in a highly unproductive and negative mindset. I’m not perfect, BTW. I may have great ideas about parenting but we ALL get caught up in negative mindsets sometimes.

But the real question is do you realize when you’re stuck in one of these mindets and can you shake it off?

I recorded this short audio for you to explain my story. I’m sure you can relate to it.

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I’m enjoying doing audio blog posts more and more these days. Can you drop me a line in the comments and tell me if you like this format better than text?

Enjoy Your Children,
Chris Thompson

SEE ALSO: This audio lesson will forever change the way you interact with your kids

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23 Responses to Do You Ever Find Yourself Stuck in a Negative Parenting Mindset?

  1. Nicky May 30, 2011 at 1:38 pm #

    Definitely prefer text I use iPhone and won’t get around to listening on computer
    Thanks:)

  2. tasha May 30, 2011 at 1:50 pm #

    hey chris,im not sure what catogery my cellphone belongs to.all i know is its nokia e63 and is just fine for text or audio.its me who has a problem. just cant wait for the downloads .so my prefered preference would be text.
    Hop ul do the needful.your excellent narrations are as go
    od as the audios.regards,tasha.

  3. Adrian May 30, 2011 at 2:26 pm #

    I prefer the audio version of the blog entry. I can listen to it in the background while at work.
    To alleviate the lack of iPad/iPhone support, providing a link to the mp3 file (below the embedded flash player) would allow iPad/iPhone users to download/stream the mp3 file to their device and still take advantage of it.

    Just a thought.

  4. Helen May 30, 2011 at 4:44 pm #

    Sorry, have iPhone and definitely would prefer text – no chance/time to get to a computer

    • Chris Thompson May 31, 2011 at 12:48 am #

      Thanks Helen – I appreciate your reply. Lots of people on iPhones probably feel the same way (I wish Apple would support flash!). Maybe I should just put all audios into a Podcast :)

  5. Michelle Mortimer May 30, 2011 at 7:39 pm #

    Hi Chris

    I have just listened to you “negative mindset” audio and can fully relate to your comments. My daughter is also six, but I only have the one child, and it’s usually in the morning when I am trying to get her ready for school so I can get to work on time, that this sort of thing happens, but I have learned to calm down and listen to what she has to say and think that if I am working a couple of minutes late at least it was worth it and at least I have made it to work.

  6. nicky May 30, 2011 at 10:28 pm #

    another thought – dr mercola does both video and full trasncript – is this an option for you?

    • Chris Thompson May 31, 2011 at 12:46 am #

      Nicky – yes for sure. I love the time saving aspect of speaking the material into a microphone and posting it quickly … but I have an assistant who could transcribe it and put text together quickly too. Thanks for the tip. I love Mercola’s stuff. He’s a good model to follow.

  7. Stephanie May 31, 2011 at 12:37 am #

    Hi Chris,

    I prefer text. Thanks for asking.

    Stephanie

  8. britten May 31, 2011 at 1:08 am #

    i’m an iphone user so if the info is in a text format, i can read it immediately. i don’t mind the audio file, i just have to remember that it’s there for me to listen to the next time i’m alone at the computer!

  9. Swati May 31, 2011 at 8:50 am #

    I prefer this audio.

  10. Zali May 31, 2011 at 9:27 am #

    Hi Chris,

    I can fully relate to this one. I have a three year old little man and he always does things like that. It is so easy to get caught up in your own habits and expectations, when being present with this little person is all that really matters in the every day. Like you said, what is the worst thing that is going to happen, and why miss a wonderful opportunity to share something with them.

    I prefer the audio…

    zali

  11. Ali May 31, 2011 at 11:24 am #

    Love to listen to the audio while doing housework (:

  12. bhanu May 31, 2011 at 12:32 pm #

    hi chris,
    both the format is good ,yet i prefer text as i am not a native english speaker.

  13. Pam May 31, 2011 at 12:45 pm #

    audio won’t open for me. it’s stuck in buffering mode : (

  14. Janine Purdy May 31, 2011 at 6:13 pm #

    Love listening to your audio messages. Gives a different perspective to how we think about parenting. Thanks a lot!

  15. Jessica May 31, 2011 at 6:35 pm #

    Both are great – and subsequently these texts/audio segments have perfect timing ;0)
    Thank you!

  16. D.J. June 2, 2011 at 10:30 pm #

    Aloha Chris,

    I like the audio, it works great on my desktop. Makes it very convenient to just hit play and I can listen to your message and still get things done around the house.

  17. Dianne June 11, 2011 at 9:48 am #

    Hello Chris,

    I was just wandering if you could point me in the right direction. I have a 31/2 yr old son (only child) and we are having problems dealing with other children especially little cousin who is 2. He wants to play with her but gets quite worked up and can get aggressive when he sees others giving her attention. my inlaws live with 2yr old girl which i find part of his frustrations come from them always holding her. how can i help ease his moods??

  18. Karenth Diaz-Parlet June 12, 2011 at 1:14 pm #

    Both audio or text are great ways to get it. I prefer a text with an audio background, since it help me to get a better understanding. Thanks Chris for sharing with us this wonderful parenting tools. Karenth

  19. Ally July 27, 2011 at 2:19 pm #

    I too prefer text… I read this during my lunch hour at work and cannot play the audio. Thanks for asking.

  20. Lim Ai Nee August 19, 2011 at 12:39 am #

    Wonderful reminder. Thanks a lot.

  21. Muckpot September 19, 2011 at 2:14 pm #

    I prefer text. With so much going on during the day I find it easier to quickly read stuff whenever I get a chance. But if I have to watch a video or listen to audio I will skip it and usually don’t have the time to come back and watch or listen to it properly. If I do I usually get interrupted anyway. I can speed read but I can’t FFWD through video or audio.

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